Terima kasih daun keladi, jangan downvote sesuka hati. I understand the importance of my heritage, but mine is not the 'conventional' Chinese heritage. So what is the traitor betraying? Back in the days I was secretly condescending towards fellow chinese who aka banana don't read or write in Chinese.
NextAdmittedly I am struggling with internalised racism, mostly stemming from the toxic family cultures my own mother and her side of the family have practiced and perpetuated over the years.
The SJK chinese kids think we all lan si cause we always speak English, but we speak English cause we can't speak Chinese, not because we lan si.
I was this radical ah Lian from SJRKC... Best course of action is to completely disassociate and just ignore these type of people.
NextYou can find a detailed description of them.
They generally mean 'good contribution' and 'bad contribution'. I have gone passed labelling every Chinese I see with this tinted perspective and respect them as a person. In fact, being a Peranakan further creates a deviation from the standard Chinese culture that people are accustomed to.
You are this race so you must believe this thing and follow this culture and do these things.
He was quite the ass so people used to call him Chibai Macho Hai sorry for vulgarity After a while we came up with somehow Puki Ma Lan Jiao Chibai Ma Chao Hai Pokai Ham Ka Chan Sik Si Gau..
NextMy banana kebangsaan school has a long time informal feud with the SJK school.
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NextBut for Malays it's worse, it is enforced by law.
Ask on the Having trouble posting? Freedom of religion apa? As such, I was picked on fairly often and even branded 'traitor' though very rarely, thankfully for having a fairer complexion I'm mixed Chinese and Dutch or British, unable to verify for the latter and unable to speak even a lick of most Chinese dialects despite having a Chinese surname back in my secondary school days. My mom is 100% Chinese while my dad is the Peranakan, so growing up with mixed heritage contributed a little to my cognitive dissonance.
NextAlthough, if they try to shove their ideals down my throat, that is when I draw the line.